In this video below, we start with Lundi and her adoptive daughter, albino orphan, Khanyisa, foraging together and spending time with Adine. Both elephants show their concern for and interest in Adineโs wounds, also on her elbow, from her recent cycling accidents. As herd animals, they share many traits with us humans, as science has shown over time. We witness this constantly in the bush with the herd.
HERD Founder, Adine saysโฆ
You will see when the little ones are not strong enough with their trunks yet, they will go down on their front legs and bite off or chew the little branches. Like humans elephants also learn throughout the years how to do things. Theyโre extremely clever, very intelligent and they can remember things that you will forget about it.
Elephants can mourn, they are very in touch with their feelings.
One of the reasons that we also rotate the carers is that they donโt get attached to one or two carers, but rather there is a variety of people. So should you go off, even for me, during the hard times I also had to stand back a bit so that Khanyisa doesnโt get too attached to me. And you can see, if you go, they are a bit sad, and once youโre back, theyโre so glad to see you. Just what Iโve experienced lately, being away for a longer period than before, Khanyisa was so glad to see me. We can also see that with the other carers that she deals with a lot.
When Herman returns, you can see how glad she is. You can see it in the communication. She will rumble to greet them. Their communication plays a huge role in the elephantsโ lives. Not only with rumbling, they also have different ways to communicate.
Elephants are very attached to their families.
They have extremely strong family bonds and they will look out for each other. The female elephants, the cows, actually play a huge role in the family hierarchy. We have the Matriarch and sheโs the one who actually keeps the family together. I think their family structure and bonds are much stronger than you have in human families. They watch out for each other, they will also fight. Some of them also donโt get along. We for example have a Bubi and a Lundi, who donโt get on extremely well, but they do get along. They have two sons and when there is a dispute between the two bulls, they will choose sides. Of course Bubi will choose Zindogaโs side and Lundi will choose Mamboโs side. So even when Mambo and Zindoga are extremely good friends, the females will remember what the boys did wrong.
I think people have so much to learn from elephants. From all animals.
Sometimes you think oh youโre forgotten, but you see how the elephants react to you, all the love they show. I thought I missed her a lot but I think she actually missed me a lot also. In the bush she keeps coming to me, seeing where I am, and actually showing me how strong she got and how sheโs playing and when I whistle to her she hears me and you can see with her ears sheโs listening and then she turns into the direction where I whistle from, and I know I need to let go, and I do let go, but itโs easier said than done.
I think if you look at Khanyisaโs companion sheep, especially Lammie who played such an instrumental role in Khanyisaโs life and Nungu played in many rhinoโs life โ a huge role. And as Nungu is just retiring and keeping Lammie company again, while Khanyisaโs out. Both of them are huge role players and I think even if itโs a sheep you know, whatever you are whatever, you sometimes think you donโt play a role in the bigger scheme of things, but how could you ever think that a sheep, oh Lammie, that when she was born that sheโd be actually such a special special little and now an older sheep. Lammieโs got such a beautiful personality. I think if we can have more Lammies in the worldโฆ They do say if women were leaders there would be less wars and the world would be better but everyone plays a huge role. Itโs just about finding that place in the world where you fit in and where you can do the most and be the most to the people around you and to not only the people but the surroundings in your area or neighbourhood.
Nicole
Thank you for the compliment :) That does sound like a very good idea!
Ronnie and Diana Green
This is so beautifully written, especially the part about Lammie. Such a true statement for all of us. I do pray you are planning a book about all your life experiences. I know I would love to read it. Part of the Proceeds could of course help the Herd.